I Love Frasier. I Hate(d) Kelsey.

I once laughed at a *Frasier* rerun so hard I fainted, fell off my stool, and nearly cracked my head on a table. Days later I learned the politics of the man who plays him — and for two weeks I couldn't laugh at the show at all. Here's what that grief actually is, why it's real, and where the honest line falls between the art and the artist.